Live Your Best Life !

HAPPY TUESDAY! I am a day late, I'm so sorry. Work and life, you all know how it is. However, I will always find time to post.

This blog is titled, "Live Your Best Life." That seems to be the phrase circling the nation. Having so many different meanings, but ultimately saying, 'DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE! DO AS YOU WISH, HOW YOU WISH, WHEN YOU WISH!' You want to travel the world, do it. You just broke up with your significant other, and want to go wild, well be safe and have at it. You want to gain or loose weight, what is stopping you? You hate your job? Find a new one and quit the old one. You want to follow your dreams, follow them. Your life is yours to do with as you pretty much please.

Lil Duval's song, "Smile" ft. Snoop Dog & Cardi B's song "Best Life" ft. Chance The Rapper, emphasizes so much of what living ones own best life means. You shouldn't follow anyone's rules but your own. Obviously you want to follow the laws, but when it comes to your personal life do you.

I say this because everyday I watch my friends, random people, and celebrities who are constrained by people who don't really know them. Constrained by people who are trying to stop their bag and for what? Because they are jealous? Because they have nothing better to do? Like you want to sleep with whoever, or have a friends with benefits situation with someone? Then do it. What's stopping you? That ex of five years you just broke up with? The friends you think will judge you? That society may call you a hoe? Sis or brother (never know who takes the time to read my long ass blogs), it's your body do with it as you please. You want to go shopping everyday and spend money you may or may not have, my friend do it.

I had a friend who loved sex. Would have sex they way she was who all the different people she was? No, but that's me. I can't tell you or anyone for that matter what to do. All I can say is be safe and clean, and think about if that's really want you want and need. I had another friend in high school who senior year transferred to be with her man in another state. Everyone said to me how as a friend could I support that. For one she was 18 years old, and her own person. I told her that it seemed a little risky and that I was worried for her, but at the end of the day the choice was hers to make. She moved, still finished high school, and went on to college, and 5 years later is married and happy. LIVING HER BEST LIFE!

What I want people to take from this post is that it is okay to be unsure of life, but don't be afraid to live it. The next day is never a guarantee. If you are having a bad day, month or even year, remember that life is full of possibilities and miracles. This may sound corny, but anything is possible if you believe in it. Not everyone is lucky enough to have a great support system, but have faith in yourself. At the end of the day support system or not you have to wake up each day and fight another fight. Be responsible with your life and never take it for granted.